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Is is wrong of me to ask my kids’ father for child support after 14 years?

I have a 10 and 14 year old with my ex. Before we had kids we agreed that court ordered child support is only for dead beats. When we broke up, he wanted the kids but I took them. Since then, he has always told me that it was my choice to TAKE the kids and if I can’t afford to raise them then send them back. That was 10 years ago.

The only time he paid me child support was when he went away to college and lived over an hour drive away. I don’t drive the freeway, so the only way he could see the kids would be to make two round trips over the weekend out here to get them. Needless to say he didn’t see them much over the 3 years it took him to get his degree. In that case, he still didn’t send me money monthly. He sent it every semester when he got his financial aid checks.

Now he’s done with college, and living nearby. He still doesn’t give me money for the kids, but he does take care of their needs. They have full wardrobes at his house, computers, etc. He has annual passes for them to Disneyland, and he buys their school uniforms. He also keeps bank accounts that they have access to for their spending and a college investment account that they can look at and help make investment decisions on.

He has taken care of his kids, but he has not paid me any child support. I know that I could have gotten it a long time ago, but I didn’t really need it.

The problem is now I have a 2 year old by another man who is the classic example of a deadbeat. He’s older (55) and works under the table. So if I took him to court there isn’t anything to get.

I don’t want to seem like a Royal B, but I need help. I’m living in a 1 bedroom apartment with 3 kids. I make too much to qualify for welfare, but not enough to support the kids. I know that if I took my ex to court I could get something for our kids. But is the a bad thing to do? I’m also afraid that there is a real possibility that the courts could give the kids to him. He is better off financially than me and I know he could use the fact that 3 kids in a one bedroom as ammunition. Also, he spends almost 6 – 7 days a week with our 10 year old son. I’m afraid that if the courts gave him the option he would rather live with his dad.

For years my ex hasn’t fought me for custody because he can pretty much see the kids whenever he wants to, and they can go over there whenever they want to. Most of the time it’s not even prearranged. The kids will just call him and say come get me…and he’s there….and they’ll stay for days or weeks at a time.

Someone told me that I shouldn’t make him pay for me having a child with a deadbeat, and someone else has told me that if I need help…then I’m doing what’s best for my kids regardless of how it affects him.
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im a gay 12 year old male nd im findin it very hard!i havnt told en1 yet but i think i fancy 1 of my friends!?

ok im jack nd his name is jason nd wer both 12 i think im gay cause i think i fancy him!it started more then a year ago wen i slep ova in his house i waz playin a guessin game wit him of wu i liked!i sed sum1 in my class!PERSON wit brown hair!he sed every1 then he goes is it me?i sed no nd i waz liein i sed a random girl nd then we went 2 sleep but i cud hav sworn he waz strokin my face maby i waz dreamin.. i tried 2 tell him but he luked disgusted for every time nd i sed i waz only jokin!which i waznt!he has becum very popular nd im fairly popular!im very confused at this age!im only 12 nd i think im gay!plz i cud do wit alot of help!
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Who do you think could make a huge impact on WWE if they got a major push+ YWWA Quest for the Best Vote/Promo?

Match 1, Hardcore Match for the Hardcore Title: Fallen DiabloВ© vs Golden Falcon vs Siberian Wolverine

Match 2: Johnny Chaos vs King Cliff

Match 3: Women’s Title Match: Amie© vs Edgehead

Match 4, World Title Match: Psycho Dude 99В© vs Stewie Griffin

The Funking Punk in ring (read his promo)

***Main Event, Quest for the Best Match (Winner faces the World Champion in the main event at Call to Greatness):

Deadman 4 Life vs Justin vs Charlie Scene vs Dark Demon vs Straight Edge Punk vs Christian #1 Peep vs Crazy Mother Punker vs Graduation Bear vs Y2J The World Is Yours vs The Legacy Continues

*** The Quest for the Best match is a 10 man No DQ match. The winner is decided by the 1st superstar who gets a pinfall or submission
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Youtube Safety Mode Turning On/Off Help? I know how to scroll down already but…?

Ok so go to youtube homepage and scroll all the way down at any page. And there is options and a scroll down menu of Safety Mode. You click on and save options button to turn it on, and off to turn it off. Simple, and you ask why am I asking for help if I just explained it? But my problem is it has the confirmation green bar at top saying Safety Mode is Successfully Disabled. So I watch a video that maybe has one bad word and it still won’t let me watch it even though Youtube told me it successfully disabled safety mode. Help this safety mode crap is annoying!
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How do feel about Obamas plan to give health care to illegal aliens & leaving 20 million Americans without.?

Obama has said, proudly and often, I am going to give health insurance to 47 million Americans who are now without coverage. But are they Americans?

That 47 million statistic includes illegal immigrants – who virtually all lack insurance. In fact, about one in four of those lacking insurance is here illegally. And they are, by far, the group most in need of health insurance.

About 15 million of the remaining uninsured are eligible for Medicaid but haven’t signed up – mainly because they haven’t gotten sick. When they do, they enroll in Medicaid and we pick up the full tab for their health care relatively cheaply. (About 80 percent of each Medicaid dollar goes to nursing-home care for the elderly, only about 20 percent for the medical needs of the poor.)

The rest of the uninsured pool? Virtually all the children are eligible for the State Children’s Health Insurance Program. Some aren’t enrolled because the parents haven’t bothered, but most are eligible. That leaves about 20 million uninsured adults who are US citizens or legal immigrants. There are far better ways to handle their needs than to turn our entire health-care system upside down.

Care for illegals is the biggest unmet medical need in our nation, and Obama’s program targets it squarely. But do we really want to give them federally paid coverage equal to what US senators get, as Obama proposes?

Covering illegals adds dramatically to the cost of any program – and would encourage more folks to enter America illicitly.

Obama’s plan will likely have a horrific effect on some local health-care systems.

Illegals now get free emergency-room treatment for life-threatening conditions – as any other American who’s entered an ER in an area with lots of illegals recently well knows. (Three-quarters of the illegal-immigrant population is concentrated in five states: California, New York, Florida, Texas and Illinois.)

But now they’d be eligible for the entire range of medical services, all free of charge. That would trigger severe rationing: bureaucrats deciding who gets to see an oncologist, who can have an MRI – and even who can have bypass surgery and who’d die for lack of it.

These decisions would be made not on the basis of legal status but on the brutal facts of triage: Treat the 37-year-old illegal with his whole life to live before you spend scarce resources on an overweight, diabetic, 80-year-old citizen with high blood pressure who smokes.

John McCain hasn’t raised this issue, perhaps for fear of offending the Latino vote. But polling suggests the case against rationing of health care would be as persuasive to Hispanic-American citizens as it is to the rest of us. Nobody wants to die waiting in line – especially not behind someone who snuck in ahead of us.
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