Alright, here goes:
I’ll be a junior next year, and I’ve never had a girlfriend or anything like that. The thing is, I’m pretty tall, slim, somewhat athletic, and pretty handsome. I’m pretty friendly to people, and I tend to be kind of a class clown at times — I can make most people laugh. (Not attempting to brag) but I drive a nice car, play guitar, and have a good sense of humor and music, and I’m generally well-liked by people at school. It’s just that it ends at that — I’m well-liked at school, and it never really goes on after that. My school has a huge drinking/party mentality, and I’m not into that scene at all. That’s kind of the barrier between perceived cool kids, and just somewhat cool kids at school. Is this normal? I just find it a bit strange.
I think you are a nice young man: I don’t see any problem in you. When I was 16, I didn’t have boy friend or anything like that. I am pretty good looking also: a lot of people ask me to joining the beauty pageant when I was a young adult. I didn’t have my first kiss until 23. I was waiting for someone worthy.
The movie or TV made us believe everybody had sex before 16, but that is not true. I know a lot of people who didn’t have bf/gf until in their 20s. They are all good looking, smart, and active/athletic. The reason why they don’t have bf/gf isn’t that they are not attractive, is because of choice. They want to focus on the study or helping other people. They have higher moral standard, and only want the high quality relationship. If that relationship is painful and cause your emotional trauma, why do you want that? Usually people who have relationship later then their peer achieve more and have more long serious relationship. They have better qualities of lives, and the marriage last much more steady also.
If I were you I won’t be bothered with that kind of problem, the girls in your age are too immature. They can’t tell the difference of good boy and bad boy. Sometimes they even despise the good guy because he is too nice. They only look for the ":cool guy":, but the ":cool guy": usually are irresponsible, emotional, impatience, even don’t study at all. This kind of guy may look cool when they were in their teens, but when they grow up and get into real world, they are just bunch of loser. Don’t try to copy their behavior to attract the girl you like. The only girl who is worth your attention is the girl who can appreciate the real you. Pretending to be someone else will never earn you a true love.
You just keep doing what you are doing now: you are an excellent young man. If you keep focus on what you are doing now, you will have a bright future. Remember, good men increase their value when they age, but that ":cool guy": depreciation by times. We girl get tire of those so call ":cool guy": after we turn 18. If you get into a good college, find a good job, still being a nice guy, I guarantee all the girls in the world will want you. At the time, the only problem is ": which one do you really love?": So please donвЂ™t worry about вЂњbeing normalвЂќ You are perfectly fine, and you donвЂ™t know how precious you are. Just donвЂ™t rush jump into a relationship, one day you will find your girl. Of cause you donвЂ™t have to wait that long, if you keep being a nice guy, I think soon a nice girl will find you attractive, and you will get the girl of you dream.
May God bless you.
just be funny, i think the type of girl you’ll want to kiss will appreciate a witty sense of humor. good luck
its ok that u didnt kiss yet. its actually good. it shows u actually consider. and tat yer serious on girls. not just some flirt.
I’m 16 and I haven’t either.
ITS FINE IT WILL BE VERY SPECIAL WHEN YOU DO HAVE YOUR FIRST KISS